Long Distance Fight-Trust

Trust is highly important in any relationship

Trust is the key to what they call  a "perfect" relationship. In my opinion, not all relationships are exactly "perfect" because there is no such thing as perfection. In reality you want a happy relationship; The key to life is happiness.


Having trust in a long distance relationship is extremely important! Having that much trust in someone is definitely a gift per say. Well, if you truly love that person, you should trust them either way. To build trust is kind of like a game. Trust is related to honesty. Ask questions to your significant other. Ask questions that are about trust and honesty, kind of like the ultimate love test!


It's also something you can do when you're Face Timing or Skyping him/her. When you're away from each other and you're doubting your trust with them, make a home made trust test and ask them questions that concern you. Joseph and I trusted each other since day 1 and we still do. We've never really had any trust issues in our relationship because we are 100% honest with each other.


The only advice I have for anyone in ANY kind of relationship is always trust your loved one and be 100% honest. It's better than lying.

Fighting the distance

Long Distance Relationships; What's the point?

Many people all around the world are in a long distance relationship. 14 million to be exact! And I'm part of that 14 million. 70% of long distance relationships don't work out. However, that's mainly due to missing each other too much and or not discussing their issues between themselves. It takes love and dedication to keep the relationship alive. Doing certain activities while you're apart can be lots of fun! Like watching a movie online together, ask each other questions and learn something new about each other, Send each other letters, etc.


Having a long distance relationship is very  inflexible to maintain. You can however make it flexible. I moved to Texas and lived there for about a year and a half. I met a guy by the name of Joseph. We met at a charter school I recently switched over to. The more we talked, the more we fell for each other. We did not make the wisest decision though. We got in trouble by doing something that we shouldn't of done. As teenagers, we tend to do stupid stuff. I wasn't able to speak with him for 2 months. This hurt our hearts. So I wrote a letter to him. He wrote me back. We communicated for 2 months through letters. During the 2 months, my dad was accepted to transfer over to California. So we planned to move during the summer. After that, school ended. My mother allowed us to hang out before we move. We spent the last few days together. We knew we loved each other and we will see each other again.
We decided to agree with the long distance and so far it's been the greatest adventure ever! We've had a few minor bumps on the road but we talked them all out. Were doing even better than before. I'll keep giving advice about the long distance fight.